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Experience:  24 years experience. Admitted in New South Wales and the UK.
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I have a contact visit planned with my two children on 2 Jan.

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I have a contact visit planned with my two children on 2 Jan. When I dropped them off at their mother yesterday I was quite upset because she had unilaterally changed the access arrangements - claiming that the visit on New Years Day would not be possible because of "a family party". So I was a bit tearful that I wouldn't see them on New Years Day and that caused them to be a bit upset and tearful. Mother is now saying that because the children returned from the visit with me and were upset and crying she will not allow the visit on 2 Jan to happen. Obviously I don't want to turn up at their home and make a scene, so do I just need to kow-tow to the Mother's orders (at least in the short term)?
Submitted: 3 years ago.
Category: Australia Law
Expert:  clairep80 replied 3 years ago.
Hi
Thank you for your question.
My name is XXXXX XXXXX I will do my best to help you but I need some further information first.
How old are the children and what is the current pattern of contact?
Clare
Customer: replied 3 years ago.

I have noticed that all questions and answers appear on the web site in public - is that really the case?

Expert:  clairep80 replied 3 years ago.
Hi
You have the option to lock the question for privacy at the end of the process
Clare
Customer: replied 3 years ago.

Ah, OK. They're two girls - ages 12 and 14. We moved overseas last year, back to where my wife was born, and fairly soon after that she filed for divorce in the UK. I alternate between the UK and where they are, spending a few weeks at a time out of the UK to see the girls (about 4-5 times a year). We have an agreement about contact fairly regularly (several times a week) when I'm over there - but their Mother has been making contact difficult pretty much since we separated in July.

Expert:  clairep80 replied 3 years ago.
Hi
So in fact the children now live abroad - is that correct?
Clare
Customer: replied 3 years ago.


Correct

Expert:  clairep80 replied 3 years ago.
Hi
Which country do they live in and how long have they lived there?
Clare
Customer: replied 3 years ago.

We all moved to Australia in July 2012

Expert:  clairep80 replied 3 years ago.
Hi
Then the issue of what contact you have with them will be dealt with under Australian Law - I shall opt out and Transfer you to the correct section
Please be patient my colleagues are worth waiting for
Clare
Customer: replied 3 years ago.

OK. I looked for a JustAnswer in Australia and couldn't find one!

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