I am sorry to hear that happened.
What is an email address that you may have used for the Apple ID when you first set up the iPad?
I can also try looking it up with your first and last name, what is the first and last name that you might have used?
Are you on your computer now?
Okay, give me a moment to check on those names please.
Okay, the Apple ID is your email address***@******.***
I can send a password ***** request link to that email for you.
Can you access that email inbox now?
Okay, great.An email has been sent to your email address c•••••@aol.com. Follow the directions in the email to reset your password. Then use that email address as your Apple ID username and use the new password ***** you create with the reset link.
Okay, I can help you with that. Go to TeamViewer.com on your laptop. Then click on the download for remote screen sharing.
Let me know the 9 digit user id and codec when b you get the TeamViewer going.