Good Morning Joe and welcome! I am Dr. Loretta, a licensed veterinarian and I am happy to answer your question.
This is a common trait in some dogs. They develop fears that cause extreme anxiety similar to those anxieties of humans. The only way to get Coco over this is "Desensitization" which means constant exposure to such things as the foods until she realizes that these fears will not hurt her. To do this, first avoid these while making Coco comfortable in her situation. You may need help in doing this since when you try, as you have experienced, she is too afraid to understand. Purchase a DAP Collar at the pet store. This is a canine pheromone that acts as a calming agent and will decrease anxiety.
Thundershirts are useful since this is one of the most common fears causing extreme anxiety and can be very effective.
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Sincerely, Dr. Loretta