My name is ***** ***** I’ve been involved professionally with dogs in the health and behavioral fields for over 18 years. It will be my pleasure to work with you today.
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Hoe old is your dog? One place it says less than one and somewhere else it says 1 year old?
What obedience training has Max had?
Do you have other dogs?
Do you allow Max on the furniture?
I don’t want you to have to wait on your answer. Max needs obedience training. He right now thinks he is the boss because no one has told him differently. He needs boundaries and training. It doesn’t have to be in class training but does need formal training at the same time each day.
The following site is helpful in helping owners train their dog. Be sure and click on the link to the page on obedience at the bottom. and links on subsequent pages leading to detailed instructions.
Training works best if you train at least 30 minutes a day (two 15 minute sessions). I would start making your dog work via the Nothing in life is free program (NILF). It is outlined below.
Dogs that are allowed on furniture (even if put on the furniture) tend to feel that since they are elevated to your level or higher if on your lap, they mentally feel elevated as well in the pack order and thus are the boss. Keeping them on the floor can help lower them mentally back to a submissive position in the pack. So the first thing is to not allow him higher that the humans or even on the same level. In addition, humans shouldn't be on the floor with him either. A small short stool is enough to keep them higher than the dog when petting the dog. Attach a leash and use it to remove him from the furniture. Give a correction in the form of a quick tug and firm "NO" when he attempts to get on and a treat when he starts not trying to get on the furniture. Thus you are providing negative reinforcement for the getting on the furniture and positive reinforcement for the desired behavior (not attempting to get on the furniture).
If max isn’t neutered, have that done as well. I’d also have a full checkup done to ensure that the licking is not a sign of a neurological issue since licking can indicate nausea and neurological issues.
Once he is trained I think you will see a lot of improvements. Use hot dog slivers as treats but cut them in half. I hope this information is helpful to you. If you would like any additional information or have more questions please don’t hesitate to press the reply to expert or continue conversation button so I can address any issues you still have . If you do find this helpful, please take this opportunity to rate my answer.