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Dogs do not like hugs and kisses despite what we humans think. Now some dogs tolerate being kissed and hugged. You can read about this here:
Now if you are the one who trained her, feeds her and takes her for walks, she views you as her boss. While you might see your husband as the alpha, she might see him as being on an equal footing with her and thus feels more comfortable playing and laying with him. That is the simple version and a lot of factors come into play. It does not mean that she loves him more just that she likely respects you more given you control her resources like food and water, etc. You likely were the one who initially taught her commands and house trained her which also set you up to be her boss.
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