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my and my ex partner split during pregnancy. i know she will

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my and my ex partner split during pregnancy. i know she will be awkward with contact so i want joint custody, do you think ill be wasting my time whats your advice please?

Submitted: 4 years ago.
Category: Family Law
Expert:  Stuart J replied 4 years ago.

How old is the child now or yet unborn?

What contact do you have at the moment if any?

Is she working? Are you?

Customer: replied 4 years ago.

hes 2 weeks old. theres no agreed contact yet its just when convenient with her , the mum. shes part time working and i work full time. recently changed jobs for more convenient hours for babys sake.


she has another child by another man who she has full custody of. this case the dad has took her to court for a contact ordr not joint custody.


 

Expert:  Stuart J replied 4 years ago.

Would you want joint custody now or at some stage in the future?



A court is
unlikely to award it to you now, and would only award joint custody to you in
the future if you had already had a major part in the child's life.

You
should try to resolve matters using family mediation http://www.familymediationhelpline.co.uk/find-service.php



Although
it is quicker and less confrontational than court it isnt necessarily cheaper





If she attempts to stop contact then you need to try and
discuss matters with her using. If this fails then you can apply to the court
for a defined contact order which will formalise arrangements.

The necessary forms are available on the here

http://www.thecustodyminefield.com/





Contact orders
have a warning in whereby if she does not comply with the order, you can make a
further application to court and she can be given a criminal conviction which
can include community service.



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