No one is living it the property, we are in arrears with the bank so it is likely to be re-possessed, I saw my youngest daughter Tuesday evening but my oldest does not want any contact with me so my wife tells me.
Also my wife again with the assistance of her mother has "gutted" the house and moved all furniture etc to a warehouse lock-up, when I asked about this she told me she needed it for when she gets a property sorted out to furnish it for the children.
Thank you for your help it I appreciated.
That was an original idea I had but in a quick meeting with the bank I believe we are past that point due to the arrears we are in. My wife originally had correspondence and agreed to pay a monthly sum but I am not aware of what the agreement was specifically. I now have the CSA chasing me and have an attachment of earning that are effective this week so currently I only have approx £110 of disposable income left per month so am currently sleeping at my sisters and contributing for my food. I must sound like quite a hopeless case.
Yes the house is on the market and has been for a few months now, not sure how long we will be given by the bank as they did say action would be taken at the end of April
Not in my opinion on market for £167k and this is the price quoted by 2 Estate agents.
We have debts of approx £19k which includes mortgage arrears. Currently I am being allowed by wife to see my youngest daughter on a Tuesday evening from 5pm until 7pm, then have her every other weekend from Friday until 6pm on Sunday but this is currently just a verbal agreement which under the current situation may get more difficult. As I pointed out before I am being told my eldest daughter does not want to see me.
Claire I really do appreciate your assistance but not sure where this is leading, I feel I need to be able to speak to someone face to face as I have some documentation and a letter from my wife's solicitor. I am beginning to think this is a lost case, my wife has money backing her and I have nothing and from looking at the internet the days of legal aid for this type of domestic issue no longer exists.
I feel I can not waste your time any further and will have to take whatever comes my way as I have no way of paying for legal assistance.