The outstanding amount is about 69,000. I'm not too sure how much it's worth. At a push it could be worth around 150,000. There aren't any other assets.
The children depend on me for most of the time
Yes she does.
The police arrested her but did not charge her, This happened around February this year
Hi Your wife will only be able to force your immediate removal from the property if she can convince the court that you have been physically violent towards her which given the previous history she woudl struggle to do. Unfortunately too much time has passed for you to rely on the last incident to force her removal from the property - but if there is a further one then yes you can make an immediate application for her to be excluded from the property In the absence of an immediate Order in the long term the question of which of you will remain in the property will depend on which of you has the long term care of the children - with the equity in the property eventually being shared when the youngest child is 18 I hope that this is of assistance please ask if you need further information Claire