my children currently reside with there mother, my daughter has told me she does not want to live with me unless we are all under one roof, my 8 year old son however wants to live with me so i would be looking at going for custody of him. The mortgage was in just my name but when we married i had my wife's name added. i have to attend court on the 9th as a debt in my wifes name has resulted in a CCJ being applied to my property, as i currently live here it is now my responsibility.
I earn approximately 36k / year i believe my wife earns about 13k. the haouse was valued at 340k last year ans the mortgage is around 230k so we have some equity