Thank you for your question
I shall do my best to help you but I need some further information first
Who has had the day to day care of the child until now
who owns the property that you live in
and what specifically would you like to know
we both do shift work so it is one in and one out
it's his property
and I want to know what I can legally ask him for in terms of child care arrangements, money towards cost of living etc
I've never paid anything towards the cost of the house as in a utility bill but I use to give him a bit of rent but nothing official.
Where will you and the child live
Do you think that he will want to continue with the shared care arrangement?
I don't know where we will live, cant continue to live here.
I really am not sure that's why I wanted to know if I can enforce anything like that, shared living arrangements
care not living!
if I have to rent somewhere could he be responsible for helping towards rent or something?
How much is the current house worth and how much is outstanding on the mortgage?
Will he WANT to continue to care for the child?
he has just finished paying off the mortgage
I really am not sure, i'm sure he will want some contact but can imagine him being quite difficult
going to have to go now. will you still be able to chat or email me something?
I don't know how much the house is worth. Must be at least £350,000 my gross annual is 20,000 & his is about £35,000
sorry for late reply. a two bed cost £325,000 in the area
I have to think of school etc. we had a massive argument yesterday and he has basically said to me that he will not help out with the child care so I need to find a new job which fits in around our son.