we lived together for 2 years as married
she has a home valued less than mortgage and i have some cash thats it
i would prefer to have it all done before her baby is born
i have savings from a house sale previous to being married. we lived together before that for 2 years
20k and a car!
what is considered proof for adultery? if she accepts the petition under adultery because she obviously wants to get this done quickly, can she then make a financial demand that will stand up in court? and is there any consequence of us being divored for her claiming child benefits or getting something out of the father of the child?
can she claim anything to do with that child from me? obviously if im the father but im 100% certain i am not and also she has admitted as such! if she accepts my petition can she claim financially? how do the courts look at this kind of a situation - she earns a good income - more than me in fact. she just has no money because she wastes it - or in this case spent a lot on hotels while she told me she was working late. Her affair was with her boss who is well off and is trying his utmost to keep this from coming out to avoid his wife finding out. Thats inconsequential really. I just want to know the quickest way to get divorced and then from there what my risk is financially? or if the court will view this in her favour or mine?
do i have claim to anything from her? her property? she has no other assets? or net assets? how do i defend myself against her claims? she wants 7.5k and then will just let this all go quickly and quietly?