There are no court orders in place. I disagree with the amount of time that she has him attending outside activities and as he is only 6 I don't agree that he should be doing something every night. He has been diagnosed with an iron deficiency of which will make him more tired and I have explained to her that he needs to rest a bit more and I am worried she has him overdoing it. She seems to think it is now fine to tell me that she has also arranged extra training for Football or other things on the nights that I have him. I totally disagree as when I have him on the 3 overnights sometimes 4 overnights he has a routine. She seems to be wanting an argument and I am concerned if I tell her that when I have him he is not doing outside activities that she will stop me having him.