It was a court order, just that we have the 50, 50 share .
He is 12. And I only have the one child.
Yes he lives approx. 10 mins round the corner.
I have to have my ex father in law to have my son before and after school. On one time my son was going to be on his own for 15 mins before school, when he found out he said he would call the police. We were married for 16 years and he was very controlling.
Also my son is scared to stand up to him so constantly I am left in the shadows.
When my son started secondary school I wasn't even put down as a next of kin as my ex filled in the form.
No its just when I go to work in the morning he comes to my house to "babysit" so to speak, then after school until I get back from work.
I have been bullied into the legal side of the divorce he took over completely