They are 7 - Jude and 8 Olivia.
He has seen them on a reguar basis up until recently. He cancelled the last but one visit (which was his son's birthday) and last week refused to collect them this week when I refused to meet up due to financial reasons
I have never said he couldnt see them, just that he collects them himself.
He moved nearly two years ago.
I am not in a financal position to cover the travel cost. We have been compromising for two years and it is no long viable. It all came to a head when he moved an arranged time which resulted in me losing a booking for work to the value of £250 and then cancelling his visit for his sons birthday five days beforeha because he girlfriend had moved in with him and her belinging were in the childrens bedroom.
No he chose to move back to Southampton as this is home town ahis Parents live there. He was born in Southampton and I was born in Leicestershire. We met when I lived in Southampton but we moved to Leicestershire after our children were born.
He did start to pay a contribution toward my petrol costs but we have suggested that after losing work (Im a self employed Bridal Hairstylist)he uses this for a overnight stay in a Hotel as he can not drive here and back in one day.
Yes. Up until the losing of a booking due to him changing the time of arranged time. We as a family are struggling financially and with the cost and time scales of the travel we had to make the decision that we could no long do this. Us being myself and my Fiance.On on occasion it took me 8 hours to return home due to accidents the M1
We have explained all this to him in July and he agreed to collect and return them to their home.
Approximately two years
He changed the original arrangements and I had to try and rearrange an appointment which lost the booking.. He changes most arrangements.
Delivering and he returned them on their return home
This doesnt cost £22 per message does it?
Clare, No not the best outcome. But if thats the case then I shall have to deal with in and make sure that to arrangements dont get change and are at times that are convenient to me so not to affect my work.
It does however seem unfair that he should make things difficult and effect our lives down to his repeate selfish actions.
Thank you for your help