Yes he is living at his property now, he moved back in when I challenged that the property was empty and he was not utilising it. I was told by my solicitor that he could be made to sell the property and he would still have enough money once he paid off his remaining mortgage to pay me money and buy himself a smaller house.
I remember paying about £800 towards the mortgage for about 5 months and I was paying about 70 a week towards food a week.
Yes it is
The last application I made, I made under the childrens act.
I didnt persue it because my then solictor said that had my ex not moved back in the house, the judge could force him to sell the house and pay me for the upbrining of the children as he didnt work and couldnt pay child support and he also had all the equity in the house.
But because he moved back into the house and when my solictor asked for previous years utilities bill and whos names they were in, he provided a new utility bill through his solictor and he also didnt provide any other proof.
it was then that my solictor said to me that I may not win the case because the judge would look at things differently because he had moved in and he had children living with him.
I did say to my solicitor at the time, he has only moved in so that he doesnt have to sell the house and he wont have to give the money for his children, wont the judge see that he is playing games. my solictor said maybe the judge may or may not see this but it was a gamble.
I feel that he has cheated my children
No she didnt, she did say that I didnt have any proof because I gave him the cash
No, I am sorry, I dont have any evidence of this at all
No, I am sorry, I dont have any evidence
Can the children no make a claim from him?
It just does not seem fair that I have raised both boys on my own with little or no support from him.
He choses not to work so that he doesnt have to pay any maintenance, which is something he stated to the boys and to me years ago.
I feel as though he has stuck to his guns and not worked.
I am not saying the children have missed out they have had a resonably good life with me as I have always worked and they have had holidays etc.
But I am so annoyed that he can have two childdren, never provide for them. live in a 250,000 house and only have 30,000 or so mortgage to pay,he is sitting on all that equity and yet he wont work and the children are not provided for because he doesnt have an income
Where is the fairness of the law?
Can my children make a claim from him? as independent people?