I'm not 100% sure but I think the answer is yes he has been assessed for discharge but these new wife will not allow him home the nursing home said they cannot allow any this is because his wife is stipulated he has to received no one from his family
He has been married 34 years to his present wife and he has four grown-up sons and the Second wife as three grown-up daughters which are not his.
As she does not communicate to us will not take telephone calls will not answer letters the only communication we do receive is from the nursing home who refuses to admit us in because of her instructions
He has dementia but he is aware of what he is doing he has not got Alzheimer's doctor said he would be better stimulated at home but she said she will not have him she cannot cope
Her daughters refuse to communicate with us the care home says they'll follow his wife's instructions he is to have him in no visitors from his blood relatives and there is nothing they can do I think is a sin and that an old man of 80 is being refused the right to see his own children and his brothers and sisters PS this is not about money because he hasn't got any we just don't understand the logic breathily think it's very cruel
The family used to see him all the time he came to family gatherings in Bolton he lives in Blackpool it is only in the last nine months why she started doing this no one knows