He has had very little contact with her he seen her 3-4 times a few months ago but i was advised to stop this by the womens refuge i had been previously been refered to.
He is asking for parental responsibility and it seems like he is wanting his name on the birth certificate but i dont want this because i fear he will take her away from me as he is prone to just disappear for lengthy times and is definatley not reliable.
I wasnt in a refuge i just called down to talk to them and get advice on my situation.
I was advised to stop contact so he didnt get too attached and also to ensure he wouldnt get parental responsibility etc.
ok, thanks for your help.