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My ex-husband and I disagree strongly about the choice of secondary

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My ex-husband and I disagree strongly about the choice of secondary school for our 10 1/2 year old daughter. He wants private and I want public. He has taken to emailing highly inappropriate/border-line bullying/harassing emails and is basically saying that he will 'fight me' regarding this issue. Our daughter lives with me and sees him every other weekend and half holidays, so she resides with me. In our separation agreement it states that he will have a say in important issues, such as schooling, but I would like to know if there is a way in which 1) can be supported with this without going to court and 2) if I can get an injunction so he does not harass or bully me anymore.
Submitted: 3 years ago.
Category: Family Law
Expert:  Clare replied 3 years ago.
Hi
Thank you for your question.
My name is Clare and I will do my best to help you but I need some further information first.
Which school does your daughter wish to go to?
Have you considered mediation?
Clare
Customer: replied 3 years ago.
Dear Clare. My daughter wants to go to the school I prefer, and my ex have refused mediation before in connection with he divorce. Sorry for the delay into reply,

Trine
Expert:  Clare replied 3 years ago.
Hi
Have you applied for the school of your choice?
Clare
Customer: replied 3 years ago.
My ex agreed they I could apply as a state school so there was a deadline. He said I could go ahead but that he still wanted to go privat.
Expert:  Clare replied 3 years ago.
Hi
Did you get the place - or is it too early to say?
Clare
Customer: replied 3 years ago.
I won't know till Match but am 95%sure of a place there as live in catchment area and school not oversubscribed.
Expert:  Clare replied 3 years ago.
Hi
Then it is up to your ex to apply to the Court for a Specific Issue Order if he is not happy with the choice that you have made - it would then be up to the court to decide - and given your daughters wishes there is little doubt that you will be successful.
With regard to the emails there is little you can do I am afraid - other than say that you will not respond to any emails that are rude - and then do not do so
If he continues to be abusive then simply do not open the emails at all ad tell him so
Obviously if the abuse becomes verbal you should report it to the police
Please ask if you need further details
Clare
Expert:  Nicola-mod replied 3 years ago.
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