daughter is now 9
social services have removed the father from the family home. the father is the facilitator for all of the medical treatment of the daughter for her serious health issues. so the daughters health has plummeted. on top of that social services have blackmailed, lied, slandered and libelled and made up false evidence, casuing everyone involved a large amount of emotional stress. They will also force my wife to do anything they want eg sign forms she does not understand, stating they will remove her child if she doesn't to everything they say -it is blackmail
We just have a Child Protection plan, which has run for over 3 years, but this means father is hardly ever with his daughter hence her medical issues cannot improve and have gone backwards
he biggest issue is she cannot speak more than a few syllables, but this was improving and is likely due to a virus in her brain, which can be treated. however this treatment is not happening as the father is the facilitator. it gives a diagnosis of verbal dyspraxia - she is mainstream in a lot of areas, but her life will be ruined if she doesn't get the treatment she needs for speech, which the father was facilitating
a big question is how do we get off this child protection plan which is what restricts the father from seeing his daughter, which makes no sense as father has no restrictions at all regarding children and so can be with any child he wants but not his own daughter. there has never been any hint of abuse between father and daughter - it was a false accusation of rape against an unrelated person
I have lodged a contact order in county court to try to obtain contact
social services will say she is on a child protection plan because the father was accused of rape of an unrelated person (in oct 2010) - he was proved innocent of this in sep 2013 in crown court and has no restrictions on him any more, as the allegations were unfounded and the complainant was a serial accuser who had accused 55 people of raping her in a 6 month period. the father will say (the truth) that Sophia is on a child protection plan because he was immensely worried about her health deteriorating with him not being in the house, and he sent a solicitors letter to social services in dec 2010 demanding her to be put on a child protection plan to protect her health treatment
my wife has had an affair since 2009 and that was a mitigating factor in me being unfaithful. I have tried for 3 years to get our marriage back together but my wife says she doesn't know all the time, thus getting emotional and financial support from me and also this boyfriend. 2 months ago I said the case is over now and so you need to decide are we going to stay married - she refused to talk. then it turned out the boyfriend is moved in already and is sleeping in my bed and with my wife in my house - my wife has never worked and I paid for every atom.
so to cut a long story short no I will never move back into the matrimonial home as I am divorcing her
The application for contact was just lodged a few days ago and has been paid for. The divorce forms are all filled out and ready to post. I have told everyone we are divorcing and so I will never live at the family home again
I have officially 2 hours on a thur eve 5.30 - 7.30, 5 hours on a sat 11-4, 5 hours on a sun 10-3. When I lived with Sophia I was alone with her 5.30-8.30 every night, then all sat and sun - and she grew up thiking that is normal - as my wife refused to do anything and was always out shopping or clubbing
the problem is that due to the child protection plan running over 3 years, I have a supervisor with me the whole time who not only is very intrusive and annoying, but also they don't bother turning up half the time, or just resign etc. so for example I gave my daughter all her Christmas presents on January 12th as this was the first contact I had since dec 15th
my ex wife would let me have Sophia every evening and all weekend or more if I was allowed, as she knows im a brilliant father and that Sophia and I have a fantastic time and are very great together
It was sep 12th 2013. they stated I must do a lucy faithful foundation in oct 2013 assessment which they all said I would sail through. however they recruited a new lead social worker who seems very nasty, and nothing happened even though I chased it every week. she said at end dec that she hadn't started it yet. then on jan 6th I was told it would be on jan 13th, and I said what have you submitted and why haven't we done this as a team to make sure it is fair and honest. they sent me their application form and it was full of slander and lies, for example it said I had raped someone. I said im not doing the assessment until im sure it is fair and honest, and I have raised a county court contact order request case instead, at which point they cancelled the lucy faithful assessment. the next case conference is 4th march 2014. the whole thing is disgusting as I would never dream of being anything except a perfect and devoted parent to my child, and I said to them if their processes didn't know this after 3 years then they were useless and a waste of taxpayers money
no I don't trust it - the assessor is getting £7.5 k for 2 mornings' work + report, and she has been fed a pack of lies eg im a rapist for which I am raising a libel case in county court next
why would the court require a lucy faithful report on an allegation that was dis-proved?
The decision from the court means I am completely free to be unsupervised with every child (and everyone else) on the planet, so shy does that not include my own daughter, who needs me most?
Why does a family get separated for 3.5 years on a false allegation damaging a child's health immeasurably, and the court or SS not care?
Why does Lucy Faithful Foundation require £7.5k it sounds like a bribe for such a small piece of work? It is not value for money
How can I get a report drawn up of my daughters problems when Social Services refuse to acknowledge any of them and refuse to discuss them. Even when she had 20 serious medical issues, evidenced by 6 nhs professionals including 3 doctors and an NSPCC case, and the school signed her off indefinitely, the SS said we were lying.
The alleged victim was 15 but on numerous websites and in her real life portraying herself as up to age 21. She accused 55 people of raping her in a 6 month period, most of which she had met. Some of those people she had never met and were pure fantasy, and she has been banned for ever working with children or men ever again due to having a job in a nursery more recently where she falsely accused men there of doing sexual things with children which was made up (nothing to do with me - I work in purchasing in the car industry).
She had a story where she told everyone she was doing "A" levels at college, was working and gave a date of birth stating she was 19-21. She looked that age too. She had a lot of stories to back that up for example talked about leaving school a few years before and how great it was to be old enough to work etc
So none of the accused had any idea she was anything other than 19-21 and this was proved in court in my case unanimously in 75 mins.
There is no way in a million years I would break any law and have anything to do with someone underage - but this girl had elaborate and complex lies and stories portraying herself as 19-21 hence the people involved such as myself were innocent