The girls are 6 and 4. They are both at school during the day and then my parents have them for an hour or two as both myself and James work full time. I do most of the looking after at home but we all lived together.
Today, straight after I told him I wanted to separate. I was at work and the girls were at my parents. He went straight round there and picked them up. He told me he would leave them to stay there overnight and we would discuss it later but instead he has picked them up and gone to his parents.