My children are 12 and 14. I do not want to put my name to anything and would like to know legally why they want this done. can they take action if I dont adhere to what they have asked for. (Obviously I have no intention of ever being intoxicated infront of my girls). There are also lies in the report about how my children have been treated. My girls have also read the report and told my husband and i that they never said half of what is stated. Its basically painting a pretty bad picture when they told us they were here to help and support our family. My husband and I cant make the Children in plan meeting this Thursday as we both work, but they are saying that they will go ahead with the meeting in our absence. Can they do this?