The children are 8 and 7. He had 1 visit in contact centre for 1hr and they refused the other visit after a yr of not seeing them otherwise he is suppose to write letters but that lasted 4 wks out of the year and they said I cant get prr of him for hospitals but that isnt taking hes rights away tho is it? and he can stop me and children moving and everything. And the court dosent no That they cant have children of there own and this is why hes walked back in their lives as hes solicitor keeps say hes a family man and with getting married and have a family its putting them better to have them but this partner is always kissing a women and I dont want my children to see this
The court let him on 18 jan 2014 for 1hr before that was February 2013. As he has to make sure im doing right by children and if he agrees to what operation im agreeing with to sign as well or if he dosent agree my children cant have there operation till a decision is made that we both agree with
I dont know why I was shocked as ive done it all before with not getting asked and Ive just done what is best as I have the same disabilities.
It was on my older daughter as she is having a op nxt wk but its just me whos on her birth certificate and she dosent no her dad. But the hospital wanted to no if I had sole or was it shared prr as if it was shared they need to be there to sign forms as well
He dosent with my oldest but hes on my other 2 birth certificate, which makes him to have parental responsibility dosent it. Which is going to start to make things harder as ive made all the dission for all the hospital for all of them since they were born hes never asked or wanted to be apart of that side of there life
Yes as my older daughter isnt hes but my 2 little ones are and he and hes partner want to have a say in everything I do with them now
Hes the father of 2. It was bad I had to make them to go In room to see him and then there attitude change and they where fighting with each other. Hes had full understanding of the childrens health but didnt want or turn up to the hospital Appointments or even when children have been rushed in to hospital.
None but for what the hospital said to me at my daughters pre-op he has to be there for our 2. Is it true as well hes wife just gets pr of my children just by marriage? Sorry this has me worried and seeing my children distressed by it all make me worry even more as I dont Know what to do. Ive had to put my children into counselling because its been to much for them seeing him come and go and threaten me in front of them.i dont no whats best know as I keep getting told its out of my hand and im not going to have a say they will have to go there and be there at hospital with hes wife
Well thats great that she dosent have to be involved. Ive told him everything about hospital till 2 years ago as he didnt want to know as my children are at hospital everyday nearly and he told my children hes partner comes 1st and she hes life now. Im worried on that I cant fuse my children again it was heart breaking last time making
them and I think its wrong and its child abuse making a child to do something they do not want any thing to do with him. Can I ask for the children to get a wishes and feelings done and they have human rights as well to be heard or are they to young for the court to let them even know they know what they want and feel. Are can I ask to keep them in a contact centre for them to see them so I know they safe thats if they go in.
Im getting confused as caffcas told me not to focus them if they dont want to be near him then I shouldn't push them as they are vulnerable and going thro loads and it will cause them more harm. Ive tired for years to help him and stopped my life so the children could have a bond with him but when he put wheel chair agaisnt my daughters neck and did a few other things I dont think my children will be safe with him. So can I ask for it to be kept at contact centre till there older and they know there mind and they can look after themselves.