2yrs 7 months old, Father is on birth certificate, BIG problem is that child is very very upset when he has to go to Mother ( banging head screaming etc) Mother admits she cannot cope, but would not willingly let child be with his Father as the main carer.
equally, shifts alter, Father is in the police force, Mother is a student nurse
each parent has the child 3 or 4 nights per week, Father takes child to nursery more and has the child more daytime hours.
Yes nursery staff raised the concerns and initiated caff meetings. A record book is kept daily of childs moods behaviour etc and nursery and parents keep a record ( they fill book of childs mood etc when collected and how he is at home and bedtime routine etc) Mother has never filled in this book! Mother has been advised to attend anger management course but never did! and has been asked to attend parenting classes.
Dad is beside himself with worry, child is not happy to go home with Mother Why????????
Dad would like parental responsibility.
Thanks for all this help
You have probably worked out that I am a very worried grandmother
I don't know whether that has been spoken about!
But thankyou I will ask that question!
I am doing this research with you because I live away from them, I gather that should be asked now, before we access a solicitors help