The child is 7 years old & he lives between mum and dad on an even split 50/50
The issue is that his father has become very abusive to my current partner & has made allegations which are untrue this has upset us both & we do not seem to be able to communicate with him effectively.
My sons father is remarried for 4 years & his current wife has been the main carer to my son which I have been very unhappy about as I agreed to joint custody in order for his dad to be given the opportunity to be involved on an equal share of his up bringing.
My relationship with his wife for the last year has been amicable & we have been able to consult with each other the needs for my son effectively
My exhusband uses his finance to bully me into allowing him to take advantage of arrangements he wants to make for his benefit.
He did not consult me on the matter of booking a holiday for my son to the maldives even though it is not his weekend to have custody for his son.
Although I feel unable to question his motives as he wont allow me to have my say I on this occasion decided to stand my ground & I told him that due to his extreme behaviour I did not want our son to go on holiday with him.
The consequences of this was that today he filed for a court order & a hearing which took place at 3.00pm this afternoon without my prior knowledge & therefore the order has instructed me to make my son available from 9.00am tomorrow morning but also states that at 9.30am tomorrow morning I have the opportunity to have this order overturned this situation has left me shocked and upset i need some help with this urgently please can you help?
I do not believe that my ex is of a proper state of mind!
I mean that he has been irrational in his behaviour towards myself & my partner including telephoning police to come out to our house & check wether his son is safe asleep in his bed this happened at 1.30am ! this morning.
How can there be any chance of changing the order as my appeal would take place after his father has picked him up?
Also when the order was delivered I did not take reciept of it & the person whom delivered it did not see me in the house he spoke with my partner does this mean I could claim not reciept of this order? in order to ignore it?
Please could you advise me on the preperation that I require for this form