How much is the house worth and how much is outstanding on the mortgage?
Whose name is XXXXX XXXXX title deeds, and the mortgage?
What other assets (including pensions) and debts are there?
How much do you each earn/ what income do you each have?
Are there any dependent children and if so, who has the day to day care of them?
The property would be worth around £150,000, i think there is about £15,000 left to pay and my wifes name is XXXXX XXXXX deeds. She told me my name was added to the mortgage and there are a couple of loans outstanding which i pay but only about £2000, I earn £45,000 per year but my wife only works 16 hours a week so that will not be much and im sorry i dont know how much, and there are no dependents.
I know this wasn't the answer you hoped to receive - but hope it helps anyway and I wish you the best of luck.
Thanks and best wishes...