8.5 , order made 2009 and rolled over by agreement between solicitors. Last order was heavy non mol 2 weeks ago. He retaliated with PSO, not to take child out jurisdiction.
8.5 ; residency with the mother ; standard alternate weekends and 1/2 holidays. order made 2009 and rolled over by agreement ; non mol (#2) last week (catalogue of non physical molestation, usually via 3rd parties texting fron anon payg) ; father broke bail conditions 2010 held on remand 6 days ; quite mad ; no evidence of alcohol or substance abuse just plain feckless. reliatory pso ; as i write this he has refused to hand child over as mother lands at lhr @ 8 ; annie is in essex; repeated refusual to hand over child ; police 15-20 times ; 10 times for DV whilst they were together. no objection to contact in principle ; indeed we are doing all the running on this. his application for full custody directions hearing on 13 march. Pressing matter is how to stop access properly and through the court rather than outright refusual/slamming door in his face; he may attempt to snatch her from school on "his" friday. child is with her bio father who has refused to hand her over as "too late" which we have had to go along with. the clause in the contact order permitting weekend swaps is the root of the problem ; new order will have to be prescriptive even if that is a dififcult way to live. no variation clause; I dont think he is fit to parent , too permissive, child not washed, homework never done or defaced according to his own agenda. a complete nutter basically. want cafcass section 7 report ordered. question is really about the intririm arrangements - we have no choice but to cut it back to letterbox contact only. what is the correct thing to apply for ? PSO? Specific measures? new contact order (which will give me parental responsibily for a child i regard as my own)
Multiple occasions over the last 3 weekends, says child was I'll and couldn't go to school. Gave undertaking that he would return her to nannie today at 11am but then refused. Took child to brownie thinking day, refused to allow handover to brown old , dragged avreamjng child back into car in front of multiple witnesses, then absconded. Refused handover to mother. Police involved. Trust has broken down completely. He does not give a hoot about court orders. Thus if he cannot be assured to hand the child back we are not comfortable with unsupervised access. Initirim measures need to be put in place immediately until the court can see a cafcass report and make a new order.
Reason was that he will only handover to mother who was out out country and he knew it. Entirely vexatious act. Previously never any issues with handover to nanny or me. Max overrun a day at most as normally we call police and retrieve her.
It was his weekend however he had agreed to swap the Sunday to permit child to go to Brownies all agreed in writing no issues there.
We have simply had enough.
Father refuses to return child. Father has previously absconded with child from supervised contact.