we both work, i'm self employed, Donna works in a shop, we both work weekends and i work unsocial hours.
she hasnt really suggested anything, i've said i dont think joint custody would work, and i'd rather give up work or cut back on my hours and look after daughter myself. but she doesnt want that.
i think she's expecting to much..
part of the arguments we've had is her long work hours not earning enough to make it beneficial and me having to cut back on my hours so donna can work to earn less not earning enough to pay bills....
Thanks for your quick replies, neither of us want to stop the other one seeing the child or anything like that. i think as far as we're both concerned we'd both want each other too see the child when ever we wanted.