so with contact, i'd need her permission to take him abroad - but with shared residence i wouldn't.but if i had contact, for say fri-mon weekly, and she took him away for 2 weeks without needing my permission she would still be interfering with the dates of the contact, presumably she couldn;t do this? (though i imagine it enforcable only back in court) so unless she wants very short holidays, she can;t practically take him away anyway surely?also, you say the police can enforce return of the child to her if i have contact, but if we have shared residence can i get them to enforce that he comes to me if she refuses on collection? (i cant see thats how id procede anyway, but just to be sure)and you said "What ever it is called she can only move away of [if] she can maintain the existing "contact" arrangements" - so this means if again i had fri-mon every week, she couldn;t just move 200 miles away so i couldn;t continue either contact. this is the same for residence?
thanks for the help, richard