we have lived together for the last six years and we got married 5 years ago. we have not been separated at all during this time. he has had periods of up to one week when he didn't come home and he missed the whole night several times. each of us is earning at least £320 a week and I get some extra up to 400 for overtime interpreting and I also do babysitting sometimes. I have been self employed for the last 6-7 years and he has been in full time employment at all times. since last year he has become self employed as well but he is still working full time and he also owns a café but I don't know anything about his business or how much profit he gets. he never brings home his wages and he makes me pay for housekeeping. he has not paid anything towards rent since 3 months.
the last incident of violence was 2 days ago and there has been another one about 1-2 months ago