My husband and his ex wife have a severely mentally handicapped daughter who is now 24 and currently living with her mother. In the future, we anticipate she will need residential care which will be on going. Please could you tell us what the situation is likely to be as regards XXXXX XXXXX obligation (as opposed to any help we choose to provide). Thank you.
PS. Please could you indicate when an answer will be ready?
My husband paid maintenance until his daughter was 21, as agreed at the time of his divorce. In addition, he used to have regular contact with his daughter and paid additional sums towards her care and comfort. I understand her mother is able to claim various benefits as the daughter is technically an adult. The situation is very strained as relations have always been difficult with the mother and the daughter's mental capacity is such that she no longer recognises my husband. Incidentally, it was the mother's choice to leave the marriage, following several affairs on her part, a number of years before I met my husband. At the time my husband was very upset at the break up of the family unit.
Just to clarify, we understand that as Julie (my husband's daughter) is 24 years old she will be assessed according to her own needs and only any money she has in her own name will be taken into account when looking at (residential or otherwise) care for her in the future. Can you tell me if this is correct please?
Still waiting for a response after several hours. I wish to withdraw my question and not take this any further.
Thank you for your comments which confirm the situation as we understood it.