she owes me £6800. we have not started any divorce proceedings.
she said she would pay me back from her half of the proceedings which i agreed with. but now has gone back on her word.but i have it in writing from her.the money was a loan after she had left me for her debts.we lived together for 24 years but the children have grown up and gone.my income is around 30k.her income is around 11k.
i've not thought about divorse proceedings at the moment.also may i add. i've never had a penny from her in over 2 years.i've paid the mortgage & endowment policy plans up until the sale of the property.
she lives in a house with a fellow. wether there having a relationship i don't know.i have a pension but i don't pay anything into it. all i have is my protect rights which i won't get till i retire & i don't know how much it is worth.
i paid into my pension for the first 10 years of our married life but nothing for the last 16 years.