to whome it may concern,good afternoon,my partner has two boys with his ex wife they divorced 5 years ago and she does not pay child support she has gone through drug rehab etc and thus far illuded payments ,dec 2013 we were awarded that she must make payments now she is working but to date she has not ,her employer is stating hes lost the paper work also, so again another delay and these clubs etc cost money which i am struggling to meet boys suffered alot of disturbances and this last 17 months have resocialized them and got them involved more acedemically etc but it takes money to remain in these clubs etc and it hardly seems fare that they should suffer,we would like to take it to court how do we do this as the local csa seem rather quiet at really pushing this issue for some reason . at time of divorce and although weve seeked help with local mp and went through house of commons we have to take it to court but money is holding us back,again, i can be thrown out of the house by her technically and yet i actually am the one who is paying the rent what do we do ,we feel so frustrated and helpless..regards XXXXX XXXXX
they have made an assement and set an amout how much should be backpaid as well.
they firstly stated that the money would be taken out her wages ,papers were sent to the employer and we should of had first payment at end of march ,we didnt so we called csa and they stated they called the employer who now states they have lost the papers so well have to wait till end of april in the meantime school trips and clubs are out of the question and slowly all the good progress made in last 17months is now sliding away.we dont have the extra cash.csa do not appear exactly speedy in their enforcing or passionate about a successful outcome either.
when they got divorsed it was supposed to be that the joint tenancy they had goes solely to my partner somehow it was never finished and so now we are left where we pay all the bills and the counsil says we have to take her to court to have her removed which again we dont have the finances but they informed us that the law is on her side so we went to a local mp she couldnt help the ituation either we feel that surely after 5years on paying no bills a statutes of limitations should be in some form of effect her older son came down on xmas day and hit me and told me that he was gonna have me taken care of we called the police hes 16 police spoke to him and gave warning to stay away but we went back to the council they said they couldnt help and that infact she could come to the house and have me removed as im not the tenant but the rent payments come out of my bank account.i tried to find out if there was any legal aid that could help but at this point iv discovered nothing.
no it was never completed during the divorce so it has remained that he and she are joint tenants even though divorced.there are no copies as it was never completed he has custody of the two young boys and now we are together i pay the rent and have no security what should we do
no shes strung out on alcohol and drugs and lives on a barge she has nothing to do with the boys