Hi Clare, I contacted the social worker she told my two youngest boys are pining to see me. They keep asking the social worker when they will next see me!
I asked wither increase contact would be considered her reply was not at this stage. Because I have to demonstrate or evidence that contact is going really well and positive for me and the children.
It is very clear that the children do miss me and want more contact.
Also I was told that I have to say to my older son I no longer live in Walsall and I live in London.
Also if my son aske if I am in new relationship I have to tell him the truth. I have not remarried but I am just getting to know each other!
My going into a new relationship may have gone against me or not I am not sure.
I am torn between my new partner and my children.
What would be your advice? Would it be wise to move back to the Midlands not near the Ex husband so I can be bit closer for the children.
Hi Clare, I think everybody's view all men are all the same. My family members and friends and the children's social worker have seen a big change in me. I am more calmer and look more confident with myself.
Yes in Uxbridge Middlesex there is hardly anything here. I do get bored but my partner does take me out to different places to visit, he shows me respect and he cares too.
I agree he is four years younger than me he will have his immature side but its not been long.
I want to focus on my wellbeing and my health and make most of contact when I have with my children make it happy and go smoothly.
I feel the social worker is more approachable and we do have a very good working relationship and positive which is good.
I want to work with her and vice versa.
I have still got long way to go