My son has never met this woman, no. His father comes to my home to look after him when I'm working and his shifts allow. Usually from 9am to 12.30pm and he occasionally calls in on an evening. We don't have any formal arrangements in place. Only what we pre-arrange each week.
Please let me know if you need any more information.
The separation is only recent so, at the moment, he seems fine with having the visits here. However, he has, on a couple of occasions, mentioned taking our son to his caravan (he lives in a caravan in a friend's garden). I have told him that I do not want our son to go there. The caravan is very dirty, they have 3 dogs which they do not clean up after and they are all smokers. So far, he has agreed to not take him there but I fear that he will ask again in future or, he will use that as an excuse to request that visits take place at HER home instead which is on a housing estate, notorious for violence and drugs.
She has just turned 29 and has no children of her own. He has told me that she has been in an on-off violent relationship before dating him.
My husband is just about to turn 40 and we have this one son together. He also has 2 daughters to a previous marriage who live in Sweden. he hasn't seen them for 2 years and does not pay for them.
So I am not able to stop her having access to my son?