Hello and thank you for your question. I will be very pleased to assist you. I'm a practicing lawyer in England with over 10 years experience.
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May I enquire if you ave asked your aunt whether your grandmother left a will please?
I apologise for the delay in reverting to you.
If your grandmother did not leave a will then her estate would be divided equally between her three children and where any of those children had predeceased your grandmother that respective childs share would pass down to any children that child left.
Only if your grandmothers children pre deceased your grandmother without leaving children would their repsective share accrue to your aunt.
Accordingly if your grandmother did not leave a will then you would be entitled to your parents one third share of her estate equally with any siblings you may have.
In terms of ascertaining whether your grandmother left a will, the first step is to ask or write to your aunt asking her to confirm if there is a will or not to her knowledge. If she refuses to respond, you can write to her again explaining that reluctantly if she is unwilling to cooperate you will have little option but to subpoena her to attend the probate registry with a copy of any will she holds or provide a declaration that she is not aware of any. This is a process whereby you can serve upon ber a subpoena to attend court in person and produce a copy of a will or declare that she is not aware of any. She cannot ignore a subpoena as this can amount to contempt of court. You can explain that you would like to proceed amicably both to preserve such relationship as remains and in order to minimuse costs and inconvenience to all and you would welcome her reply within 7 days in order that you do not have to take further steps.
If you decide to issue a subpoena you will need the assistance of a solicitor though it is not an expensive process. You may suggest to any siblings or relevant cousins that you share the costs of such an application.
If there is no will then you can demand accounts in due course from your aunt so you can see the assets of the estate and such further information as you reasonably require to determine your entitlement.
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