Thank you for your question.
My name is Clare. I will do my best to help you but I need some further information first.
How old is the other child and what contact has your ex actually had in the last six months?
hi our other child is 5yrs old and contact has been between 5 and 10 times in the last 6 months
I have been keeping a diary of contact since Christmas and looking back through he has seen our 5yr old 2 times since Christmas and 4 times with the 13yr old