My child is 2yrs old. His father not on birth certificate. He has been in and out of childs life..i have tried to give him access but he is emtional ababusive towards me and inconsistant with needs if the child. He was made pay maintence in 2013..which he then became interested but no consistancy. He has aplied to court for access and parental responsibilty now. However i now realise i cannot protect my chikd if he is kidnapped by his dad (as he said to me) unless i full custody from the court. I also want to be able to movr out of the city i am in where hus dsd lives as i was not living here before i was pregnant and wish to move now im back working...so does all affect it too?
i wish to know given the info below.. what will i need to be granted full custody and residential living.. as i am very worried about this. also i will want to move cities soon and can he stop this?. Prior to pregnancy i was in Hertfordshire (now in Leeds) and wish to leave Leeds now my son is a little bigger and i am recovered from my operation from the baby. ( not sure this was all clear in my last reply. I want to be seen favorably in the courts eyes
not yet.. i have a my first court hearing may 13th so nothing granted yet.. (i have applied for mediation in the meantime)
The father has had about 6 occasions ( 3 of which he was consuming alcohol) of contact in 26months . He wants access ( expressed to me he wants access alone without me to take him to his parents home which I DO NOT WANT) and parental responsibility.
Do i need get full resident and custody order first? to ensure the baby stay with me.?
Will be hard at this moment for more x to be granted parental responsibility or will it be automatically given as he asked.. as to date he not shown consistent involvement in the child life. Is there anything i can do to stop parental responsibility as i am aware there are a lot family influence (his) on this matter which has caused much distress and the initial breakdown of the relationship while pregnant. I have no objection to him seeing his child and building a relationship that's healthy.. but very worried my x family will cause problems as they have issues with me and my family. my concern is that me and the father do whats right for the child.. not having interference that's affects my child's emotional well being and ultimately mine as his mother
He may well commit just so that his family meet my child. My fears sre that that his family have isolated me in my community and my family members too by making lies up on my character and whether the child was his fathers. They have made a huge issue on me not being married and pregnant. They have also been verbally abusive and thus would hatm my sons emotional development on bond with me and as a person with people speaking and behaviouring this way towards me. Also made un acceptable statements regarding my father is deseased
What can i do to delay the parental responsibilty....or how long does he have to keep up regular contact before he can apply for PR