been married 10 years with 2 children aged 9 and 10. we've been together 12 years in total. we own our own home with a mortgage of about 130,000 but the house is worth approx 300,00. i haven't had it valued as yet. i would like to know if i can stay in the house. my thoughts are that he continues to pay 1000 a month into our joint account till next july when the mortgage payment will go down substantially. i would like to keep the house and in return i will make no claim to his police pension. i do earn more than him but i pay the bulk of cost, food, clothing, christmas, birthdays, school trips, clubs dinners etc.
i also gave him 6000 to pay off debt and buy his 4th bike then i loaned 10,000 for him to buy a new car.