Thanks for your reply
I moved from the family home back in June 2009, will never be agreed, she is Christian and she said that God doesn't allow it,
so, she will remind married to me and I can never get married again as she doesn't want me to sin.
By beginning of August of this year/2014 will be 5 years. She responded to the court that she wasn't agreed with the date when I moved out, she said that although I moved out of the house back in 2009 were still seen each other, which is untruth, the only reason I keep seen her was because had to collect my son as he was only 7 years old, so, she would call me to tell me where I could pick him up from. I think living apart and not wanting to be with the other person is enough reason to get divorce after 2 years, don't know why the court don't see that. I really want to end this sad history which is been stressing me up, not allowing me to be happy in my present relation, just because she is having pleasure from my suffering, even more she had put my son against me, telling him things that as adults only concern to us, getting to the stage that he doesn't want to go or come to my house to spend time with me, and this really is killing me slowly, this is my suffering and I don't know what to do, no one seems to understand and don't get any help or advice. Please help me, I'm desperately.
Thanks Clare, this is giving me a more clear picture of what to do next. I think I will make an amedment request to change the date of been apart as she already agreed toJune/2010 and apply on the grounds of the 2 years separation , rather than the 5 years as the court won't allow it until August/ 15, unless I chalenge and prove the fact tha I truthly end the relation back in June/09, and I'm not prepare to wait any longer to get divorced.
My last question if you don't mind, would be what do I need to do to or how do I get this amendment request petition from the court. I will really apreciate you advice. Thanks....kind regards XXXXX
Well, she already told the court by felling a form and signig it, don't think She can't change her mind now, don' t think the court will sllow her to move another year, don't
you think so?
I don't understand how she can force me to be married to her. I have proof tha I live somewhere else and also I have a new partner with whom I've been living together for 4 years, wouldn' t the court understand tha I don' t want to be married to my exwife, and deserve to be happy with someone else? as well as she has the the same rights to be free to do whatever she wants. Could you please explain this to me. Thanks.
Thanks Clare, much appreciated.