i would like to change my question and ask what do i need to do if i would like to stop contact with his father due to perverse behaviour that he is exposed to.
Yes there is a court order and right now he sees my son every 3 weekends and one week over the Easter and Christmas holiday and 2 weeks over the summer holidays.
I haven't seen a bed at his house for my son but my son said to me he sleeps with both of them in bed and this is what i have seen too. When i asked him who he sleeps with he said with his dad and his girlfriend in the same bed.
This behavior of being kissed in odd places came to my attention recently as my son started talking better and can be understood what he says. He is asking to be kissed on his tongue and on his nipple he didn't specify who is doing this to him. I would like to know what can be done and i could this be monitored at home he has his own room.
Yes he said he is sleeping with my son in bed but denies kissing him in inappropriate places. What can I do to prevent it from happening?