no they have not as far as i am aware, i have thought about it on many occassions but i felt that if i did she would stop me from seeing my daughter if she knew it was me who called.
and yes i do have her for longer period sometimes, at the moment its every other weekend, i have her fri, sat, sun then drop her off monday morning, then the week inbetween i have her on a monday night.
does this help?
she went to nursery last year for about a month, she has just started nursery last week as her mum has just got a job, she is in and out of jobs alot so she normaly gets a friend from the estate to look after her.
The mother has a past record with the social services about her past as a child too.
My family and friends have told me to contact the social services about it but as i said before the reason why i havent is that she always threatens to stop me from seeing her so it normaly feels best for me not to say nothing
I sent her the letter via txt message, she replied saying she was going to the dentist after work, so i told her not too as she will just cause a drama there.
Before i took my daughter to the dentist i had asked her to do it several times, when i saw my daughter drinking coke from a bottle for the first time when i wad picking her up i said you can't be doing that it's
wrecking her teeth, to which she replied 'but she likes it'
i sent that to her about two weeks ago, the damage to her teeth is irreversible. I would not know if her diet has changed, but she does ask for sweets all the time still?
I have asked countless times to have her full time, but i think its the benefits that is stopping her.
i used to have my daughter three nights per week but it changed to every other weekend.
Just before Christmas this year. i was having her 3 nights, two nights on the weekend and on a wednesday night, i stopped doing this a she lost her job so i started getting her just on the weekends each week, her mother has just got another job so we decided on every other weekend and one night in between, this has been like this for about three weeks now
could i just apply for residency order? then just not take her back until it id sorted?