Thats ok. I earn 48k gross and pay £400 per month.
She will probably spending most of the time at college and going to either her mums or mine on some weekends. I can only estimate that it would be about even for the time she decides not to spend at college. Guessing it may be around the 52 nights with each of us in a year. very much guess work though.
Would I have any choice of stopping payments but paying for college fees and food etc? I dont feel i should be paying for my daughter to live with my ex when she is not and she would be with us both equally. I'm not trying to get out of it and i have always paid for much more that i probably should ie if my daughter is with me we may by clothes she needs, shoes, just bought her a laptop for college,pay for ski trips etc etc but i do feel that it doesn't seem right.