Thanks for your response ...details below as requested
Birch Farm (our house - non functioning farm house with 14 acres and outbuildings); mortgage £600k; worth approx £1m
Hannington (my original property); current mortgage £5k (my ex took a loan out against the mortgage to buy shares in her old company); house worth approx £275k
My parents paid approx £40k; my ex partner paid approx £20-40k (can't recall exactly).
My ex also had a half share in a house in Spain (between her and her Mother) that we used to use for short holiday breaks until her Mother moved over there full time (rents her own house in the UK out; doesn't declare income!)
Ex partner made redundant in November 2013; currently working at £1k per day as consultant (average normal earnings £8k per month when working - currently has approx funds of £120k in bank);
Myself; I used to be Director at BSM, left in 2006; earnings approx £60kpa; set up own business in 2007 (encouraged by ex partner); no earnings until about 3 years ago when I started to take £500pm; it went up to £1k per month after approx 12 months, then recently (approx Dec 2013) salary went up to £2kpm (this fluctuates dependant on how company is doing. I have approx £4k in the bank.
If you need anymore info, please don't hesitate