I can wait another couple of days for an answer . Thankyou.
no we do not agree to changes unless I get a messege to say they will be late home , which I can do nothing about.We keep telling him that we have a life and r not sitting around waiting to be ordered around by him.He is sending solicitors letters to force me to go to mediation to agree with what he wants but my children are doing what they want so he then accuses me of causing emotional damage to my children.My daughter wants her dad to leave me alone and to pay attention to what she wants.
When they have had a long weekend with their dad I then have the next weekend as my long weekend.We then half all school holidays.It sounds complicated but is all written down at the start of each school year.
Monday.I am not going to mediation with him .He is a charming bully and Ihave no wish to be in the same room as him just to give him the satisfaction of proving he still can control me.!!!!
Can my daughter do anything to stop her father trying to disrupt our lives ?