We can't have a clean break as we can't afford it. I will still be paying maintenance etc.
We have agreed that my wife gets 80% of equity in house but doesn't need to pay me the 20% until the kids leave school in 10 years or she cohabits or sells the house.
I pay £900 in child support reviewed annually and £300 in maintenance. We keep our own pensions.
It's the only way she can afford to keep the family home if I pay some maintenance as well. My eldest son has some mental health issues and a change of home won't be good for him, so we have agreed that she can stay in the home with the kids and I will help with an extra payment until the kids are 18, she cohabits or sells the house.