Dear Clare There is a 5% chance that Harley could be mine but working on dates and times it's very unlikely . I was a young millionaire business man and I dated my wife on and off . I knew in loved her very much but I suppose it was hard to change my lifestyle . One morning it all clicked in to place and when I went round she informed me she was pregnant and the dates did not coincide with the two of us . She new who the father was but it was just a one night stand and she also informed me that he had some mental health issues through the use of cocaine at the time. Three years later she gets a text asking if it's Louise the mother of his child. Our first concern is him finding Louise on the net or 192.com etc and turning up at the house and secondly does a one night stand have any rights after 3 years of non contact to see Harley . Or does he have any rights at all . He has not threatened anything as yet as he does not know where we live etc but we need to know where we stand if he did as we need to be read rather than ignore.