Final care order I think was last year, only reason I was ever given for not being allowed to attend meetings was that my daughter didn't like to discuss things in front of her parents (her dad was still invited) and my daughter has not actually attended the last 3 meetings. I this week finally received the minutes of the last meeting, I had submitted a written statement as requested, this was not mentioned whatsoever, also I do not feel 3 months is a reasonable timeframe to expect to receive the meeting outcome. This is all causing far more stress on top of an already awful situation, I have never been argumentative nor said anything out of turn at the meetings. I was never abusive nor neglectful to my daughter, she was the centre of my world and I just cannot understand the treatment of social services towards me. This is very upsetting.