Hi, not too sure my last msg was sent due to i phone, she says she is single.
Thanks, ***** ***** be the most likely out come if we go to mediation? Because she just wont agree to this.
Iv'e received a 2nd letter from her solicitor saying she wants 75% and i pay off all debts in my name. If i do not agree she will take me to court, which will cost me about £10,000, which i don't have.
Please help i don't know what to do.
Ok, Thank you.
I have offered that before but without the mention of saving money on court fees.
She is a hard woman that is out for the lot!
What if she's says no?
Nothing yet but, she has started it with her solicitor. They have put it as unreasonable behaviour which is not true but because the separation is under 2 years that's what it has to be. Is it okay for me to go along with that?
Thank you for now.
Hi, sorry, just reading back did you mean split 60/40 and I pay the debts in my name?
Also while i'm here, this evening when i took the kids back I went to get a tool of mine from the cupboard and she stopped me. I took one more step the she shoved me. Also she has a female there that has been living there for about three months. Should i be doing anything about this ?
Oh, okay, Thank you.
Hi, we have come to an agreement but i'm now wondering if i have given too much, nothing has been written up or signed yet.
We agreed, all mortgage, solicitors, estate agents, and joint debts we bill paid off first.
Then the equity split 70/30 to her, I keep the £5,000 i was given to move out BUT I still keep the £16,000 debt that is in my sole name, although as i have said before these debts were spent on us as a family.
So after everything is paid off, i get about £26,000 minus £16,000 debt = £13,000
She will get about £45,000 minus the £5,000 she will need to pay back to her farther that she gave to me = about £40,000
Please can you help, do you think this is a fair outcome with children involved ?
Yes i know, i'm just getting stressed with it all and was trying to put an end to it. Her solicitor is asking for proof of the spending, I can prove some but not all of it as my accounts have gone astray "I guess she has them"
Okay, Thank you. I will throw that back at them and hold out for an offer at least close to that.
Hi, I did what you said, she now says she will take me to court. I don't have enough money for court. Do i have to go? and will it still cost me money if i don't go?
The house is now sold subject to contract. We still have no agreement on the equity split.
The interest only on the mortgage runs out in January. She still wants a 70/30 split and i keep the £5,000 i had when i moved out from her dad but, i still have to keep the debts that are in my sole name, remember i said they are family debts.
She says she will not take me to court now.This is her final offer, If i do not agree she will take the house off the market. Which means when the interest only runs out neither of us can afford the full repayments. So i can only assume the house will later be repossessed!