I live in Hemel Hempstead, Hertfordshire.
No my husband is not physically violent but he is verbally when he has been drinking. Also he takes medication for depression but sometimes forgets which makes him worse.
I do not wish to start divorce proceedings.
Yes they have both witnessed these incidents and the older one is very aware that his dad is ill.
Hi, yes it has been at least twice a week, and in the last two weeks its been nearly every day.
I feel that is a bit extreme as he has not gone off with another woman, he is very ill and all I want to do is protect my children from his behaviour, it was only a little while ago that asked my 10 year old to fetch all his tablets because he said he wanted to kill himself.
Even if there were somewhere for him to go he would not leave willingly.
The boys need to have a normal life, and this is far from normal.
I cant think of anyone who would want him in his state, he needs to be in rehab, or somewhere that look after people like him.
Sorry that's not very helpful but my priority are my children, at the moment I don't care where he ends up.