My wife 2 children her parents and brother and her grand parents. She did say that she will ask a friend to go but I will have to pay. so far £5000 has been paid out of our joint account for the holiday. with approximately £2000 outstanding. Obviously her relatives are responsible for their share. Our family share is £7000
I don't know my wifes income she works part time. I earn £24000 per year. I have found out that there are debts on a credit card that I didn't even know about. We have a mortgage in both our names and all my assets are tied up in that. I have no savings.
Hi Claire thank you for this. Obviously the split is recent and I just want the best for my children. I want them to go on holiday and will arrange to discuss this matter with my wife. she has stated that the monies that have been paid cover her and the children and not me. I have evidence that the money came from me. I will arrange to speak with her again but it is very difficult to communicate with unreasonable people. I am in the process of writing a separation agreement. If nothing else your advice have given something to work with. I need to get something in place for the children that is best for them as I need to support them through this. I have to stop her using them as an emotional weapon. Thank you Ed